You've heard this before, but we are all innately worthy. Both you and I are equally worthy of love, of money, of financial freedom, and of the careers we want.
However, conditioning (past trauma & subconscious beliefs we internalized from others), left us thinking that we aren’t worthy. That we need to work really hard to receive - love, money or freedom.
Interestingly enough, both love and money may reflect the same unhealed wounds related to survival. It is not unfamiliar that my clients will display patterns of scarcity to both love and money.
The same happened to me. I had the same pattern of scarcity and abandonment - aka need of holding on & unconscious fear or “it being taken from me” with both my romantic relationship and my money.
A new universe unfolds and a new reality shows up when we realize how interconnected everything is and how trying to escape healing from one place will pop up in a different area of our lives like playing Whac-A-Mole.
The truth that may be a bit hard to swallow is that we cannot trick healing. We cannot escape our conditioning. These wounds don't go anywhere unless we intentionally do the work to heal them. We have to take radical responsibility for healing them by rolling up our sleeves and doing the work. The sooner, the better."